When “I do” becomes “I don’t”

 

I’ve witness too many family and friends go through a divorce. I hope to never have to experience it. 99% of them are because one of the two broke a vow and didn’t love and honor their spouse and the vow of fidelity. It breaks my heart when this happens.

With this also comes “new beginnings.” Anyone who has gotten divorced shouldn’t be “one and done” and can hopefully open their heart to someone new, even if they got burned. What is hard for their “someone new” is to accept that there is a past life with this person. Maybe there are kids, pets, financial items lingering. These are things “someone new” will need to accept.

In my opinion, the significant other should be as open about their past life as much as their “someone new” wants. This past life shaped who the person is you love today.

My friend sent me a great quote by Buddha about what the is difference between  “I like you & I love you?”

“When you like a flower, you pluck it. But when you love a flower, you water it daily. One who understands this, understands life.”

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